Stalker cop weeps as she dodges jail for 'relentlessly' hounding ex with lies

A suspended police detective who bombarded her ex-boyfriend with abusive messages and calls during a ‘relentless’ stalking campaign after they split up wept in the dock as she escaped jail

today. Sue Thorpe, who worked for Northumbria Police, harassed and verbally abused surf instructor Barry Henderson, 58, when he dumped her. She turned up at his workplace and told lies to

his family and friends, alleging he beat up pregnant women and had cheated on her. Thorpe, 44, also humiliated Mr Henderson in a café in front of several witnesses where he was having lunch

with a friend, loudly shouting at him: “He’s a sh****r… don’t trust him.” Thorpe, a detective constable was jailed for two years, suspended for two years, for stalking, with a 10 year

restraining order, banning any contact with him or any person believed to be his partner. She was given a further 12 months to run concurrently for the misuse of the police computer to

obtain information about him. Proceedings had heard how she accessed the police national computer and illegally looked up information about Mr Henderson after they split. She had denied

stalking and securing unauthorised access to the police national computer, but a jury took less than two hours to find her guilty. In a victim impact statement, Mr Henderson told how she had

made entirely false accusations in front of his family, including her son, and told his male friends that he was having affairs with their partners. Judge Amanda Rippon said she had found

Mr Henderson a 'completely truthful, honest and accurate' witness' while 'she was not'. However, the judge told the court she had been "considerably moved"

by Thorpe's account of losing the twins by IVF in 2019, and accepted she had become depressed and may have had PTSD with her life 'at a crossroads'. She added: "They

treated the IVF differently. He perceived two eggs had not taken. She described it as a miscarriage. I have no doubt that she desperately wanted children." Last month the judge bailed

Thorpe, of Whitley Bay, Tyne and Wear, but earlier warned she could be jailed when she is sentenced. The judge said: “You should understand these are serious offences. The custody threshold

is passed. A prison sentence is not likely but it is possible." Newcastle Crown Court earlier heard how the couple met on dating site Plenty of Fish in 2014 and soon set up home

together. Thorpe suffered two miscarriages and underwent unsuccessful IVF. In 2019, their relationship started to fall apart after a series of arguments. In text messages sent before they

split in July 2020, Thorpe moaned about having ‘zero sex’ and complained about always cleaning up after Mr Henderson. During the campaign of harassment she is said to have called and

messaged him with abusive messages, some of which accused him of cheating on her dozens of times a day. Thorpe is currently suspended from the Northumbria force, MailOnline reported.

Detective Chief Inspector Graeme Dodds, of Northumbria Police's professional standards department, previously said: “Her actions were completely unacceptable. “We can confirm misconduct

proceedings are being progressed in relation to the individual, who remains suspended from duty.”