How to protect your personal data when relationships fail - scams - aarp ever...

Happy, loving couples eagerly share everything. But once Cupid's arrows go off their mark, you could be hit where it really hurts — an online leak of your most personal details,

courtesy of a vengeful ex. The majority of couples share details of bank accounts, Social Security numbers, health insurance IDs, email addresses and online passwords — and 94 percent

consider that data, along with risqué photos, to be safe in the hands of their partners, according to the 2013 Love, Relationships and Technology survey by Internet security company McAfee.

But when there's a breakup, things can get ugly. Just consider: In one of every eight relationships gone sour, one of the partners has his or her personal data leaked online by a

revenge-seeking ex, the company found. Among people ages 45 to 54, it occurs to about one partner in every 12 broken relationships, says McAfee after interviewing nearly 1,200 Americans

between ages 18 and 54. The posting of previously exchanged sexy photos may be the most embarrassing — and boomers in love don't seem shy about providing them to each other. McAfee

reports that one in four interviewees between 45 and 54 planned to send intimate photos to their partners by email, text or social media on Valentine's Day. Of course, identity thieves

are more interested in details of your financial data that the once-devoted might leak. Here's what you should know, based on McAfee's findings: 1. CHANGE PASSWORDS TO AVOID

POTENTIAL PAYBACK Sharing passwords with your partner might seem harmless and a sign of trust. But it can put you at risk. If you're ex feels vengeful, you could find your "landing

private information in a public platform for all to see," says Michelle Dennedy, chief privacy officer at McAfee. So if you're headed for Splitsville, it's time to change

shared passwords for your email, social media pages and online financial accounts. Even if the relationship's doing just fine, you might consider new passwords as a proactive privacy

measure. Why? When armed with a partner's passwords, McAfee says, 56 percent of those surveyed readily admitted to checking the bank accounts of their significant others and nearly half

said they logged in to read their partner's emails.