Pet body language you might be misreading

About 23 million American households added a pet to the family during the pandemic. While you may have the feeding and housebreaking under control, one aspect of ownership that can be

daunting is communication. You may think you know what that tail wag or cuddle means, but do you? We asked a few experts for guidance. DOG SMILING Getty Images WHAT YOU THINK IT MEANS: All

is well. WHAT IT REALLY MEANS: That grinning look is not the same for dogs as for humans. “Generally speaking, tension in the mouth is a sign of stress,” Case says. “If the dog is actually

feeling happy, their mouth isn’t going to have tension to it. It might be open a little bit with what we call a soft face.” DOG WAGGING TAIL Getty Images WHAT YOU THINK IT MEANS: I’m happy.

WHAT ELSE IT CAN MEAN: “People think just because the tail is wagging, all is well, but that’s not always the case,” says certified applied animal behaviorist Jill Goldman. A good tail wag

is side to side or in circles. This often means that the dog is excited to see someone. But a wagging tail that is a “high mast, hooked all the way over,” Goldman says, can signal a

heightened emotional state that isn’t necessarily social. CAT ROLLING OVER Getty Images WHAT YOU THINK IT MEANS: Rub my belly. WHAT IT REALLY MEANS: Not that. “Most cats do not love belly

rubs,” says feline behaviorist Marci L. Koski. “That’s where the Venus cat trap comes into play. You put your hand on the belly and then, whoo, there go the claws.” DOG PANTING Getty Images

WHAT YOU THINK IT MEANS: I’m hot. WHAT ELSE IT CAN MEAN: “Panting can sometimes mean stress,” says Courtney Case, a trainer at the Granada Hills, California–based J9’s K9s Dog Training. “So

if you’re sitting inside and your dog hears a noise and they start panting, it might mean that they’re a little bit stressed, and they’re just trying to get a little bit more oxygen into

those lungs.” CAT RUBBING UP AGAINST YOU Getty Images WHAT YOU THINK IT MEANS: I like you. WHAT ELSE IT CAN MEAN: “It’s also as a way to leave their scent behind,” Koski says. “The most

common way a cat will rub up against somebody is with their cheek. This deposits those facial pheromones that are often used in marking territory.” DOG BARKING Getty Images WHAT YOU THINK IT

MEANS: Someone is invading my space. WHAT ELSE IT CAN MEAN: “Barking can be, ‘Oh, I’m so excited to see you,’ ” Goldman says. “But it also can mean, ‘Keep your distance. I’m very

territorial. Don’t come any closer.’ ” DOG ROLLING OVER Getty Images WHAT YOU THINK IT MEANS: I’m feeling lazy. WHAT ELSE IT CAN MEAN: “If a dog is rolling over and exposing their belly to a

person that they’re comfortable with, they’re probably asking for affection,” Case says. It could also be a sign of submission. “If a dog does that to a person they don’t know, I’m going to

assume that dog is trying to show me, ‘Look how small I am. Please don’t hurt me.’  ”​