When should older adults stop driving?

Whether it’s the driving of a spouse, a parent or another loved one, there may come a time in your life when you begin to question whether a loved one is still safe to drive. But how do you

know when it’s time for your loved one to limit or stop driving? Although there are natural changes that may occur in our brains and to our bodies as we age, the question of when it is time

to limit or stop driving is not about age. It’s about the ability of the driver. To this end, observing the driving of the loved one about whom you are concerned and looking for warning

signs of unsafe driving is a great first step in determining whether it’s time to talk to them about hanging up the keys. As we all know, driving ability goes beyond the simple ability to

physically operate a vehicle. Safely driving a vehicle requires physical and cognitive capabilities, driving skills and good driving behavior. Here are only a few warning signs of unsafe

driving: * Delayed response to unexpected situations * Becoming easily distracted while driving * Decrease in confidence while driving * Having difficulty moving into or maintaining the

correct lane of traffic * Hitting curbs when making right turns or backing up * Getting scrapes or dents on car, garage or mailbox * Having frequent close calls * Driving too fast or too

slow for road conditions If you’ve noticed that your loved one shows some of these warning signs, it means it is time to talk with them. But how are you supposed to sensitively broach the

topic of stopping or limiting driving and have a productive conversation? First, it’s important to remember that limiting or stopping driving is a complex and emotionally charged discussion.

Older drivers have a lifetime of driving experience behind them and deeply value the independence and mobility that driving provides. Preparing for the conversation with We Need to Talk, a

free online seminar developed jointly with the Hartford and MIT AgeLab, can help guide you through what steps to take. Beyond providing you with tools to begin a casual conversation about

driving and tips on engaging an older driver in self-evaluation, We Need to Talk can also help you with possible solutions for your loved one’s transportation needs — helping your loved one

maintain their independence and relieving some of the pressure on you as the caregiver. _Kyle Rakow is Vice President and National Director of AARP Driver Safety at AARP. He directs the

largest driver improvement course in America designed for drivers age 50 and older. He can be reached at krakow@aarp.org._